CO-DEPENDENCY

Drug dependence affects not only drug users themselves but all of the people in their social context, especially their family2,4.

Codependency, a learned or survival behavior, refers to a psychological problem that enables drug users and their family members to engage in mutually destructive habits and maladaptive coping strategies to maintain a sense of balance or homeostasis3,4

The codependent loses control of his own life and his own limits, and invests all his energy in the rest of the people, has a great need to be useful and pays a very high price for it16.

To distinguish the codependency construct from healthy caretaking behaviors, Fuller and Warner (2000) suggested that codependency be operationally defined as an excessive focus outside oneself related to a stressful family environment15.

Highly codependent individuals adapt their behavior in such a way that they allow it to affect their personal and occupational lives by changing or cancelling plans, hiding the user’s behavior from the rest of the family, lying or excusing the user’s behavior, and expressing a desire to change their own behavior without managing to do so16,4.

STRESSORS:

The literature review reveals the stressors responsible for development of codependent behavior which are discussed as follows:

  • alcoholic parents17
  • an outcome of childhood abuse.18
  • family stress (family with an alcoholic, father with mental illness or father with physical illness)
  • alcoholic spouse

Hughes-Hammer, Martsolf, and Zeller (1998) found that codependency consists of five factors including other focus/self-neglect, low self-worth, hiding self, family-of-origin issues and medical problem.

Codependency refers to a learned or survival behaviour in dysfunctional families with resulting neglect of one’s own needs and excessively focusing on others.

Codependency refers to a learned or survival behaviour in dysfunctional families with resulting neglect of one’s own needs and excessively focusing on others.

Codependency refers to a learned or survival behaviour in dysfunctional families with resulting neglect of one’s own needs and excessively focusing on others.

Codependency refers to a learned or survival behaviour in dysfunctional families with resulting neglect of one’s own needs and excessively focusing on others.

PERSONALITY TRAIT AND CODEPENDENCY:

A study conducted in women with alcoholic spouse reveals that not all addicts’ wives experienced codependency; women with a high level of neuroticism and low level of openness and agreeableness were more vulnerable to the stress of living with an addict and to codependency1.

According to five-factor model of personality Neuroticism refers to the degree of negative emotions, insecurity, vulnerability and anxiety1.

FEATURES:

Symptoms associated with codependency are:

  • hiding oneself14
  • medical problems14
  • low self-worth (self-criticism, self-blame and shame)14
  • an intense need to help4,5
  • difficulty setting boundaries6,7,8
  • asserting their own needs because of low self-esteem6,7,8
  • poor emotional control6,7,8
  • self-blame 6,7,8.
  • prioritization of others’ needs1,11,12
  • exaggerated care taking behaviors1,11,12
  • obsessive involvement with others1,11,12
  • Self-neglect
  • having trouble in intimate relationships are frequently reported by addicts’ families, especially their wives 1,11,12

TREATMENT:

Codependency is a form of inappropriate relationship, it can be modified once the codependent accepts the help16. It is important for families to receive specialist treatment in order to contribute to the recovery process.

A research shows that The Tele-intervention Model and Monitoring of Families of Drug Users (TMMFDU), based on motivational interviewing and stages of change, aims to encourage the family to change the codependents’ behaviors, proves to be effective in changing codependent behaviors among compliant family members of drug users9.

 

REFERENCES:

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Cassandra Borges Bortolon, Taís de Campos Moreira, Luciana Signor, Bárbara Léa Guahyba, Luciana Rizzieri Figueiró, Maristela Ferigolo, and Helena Maria Tannhauser Barros

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  2. DOI: 10.1002/ijop.12271
  3. Testing a model of codependency for college students
  4. in Taiwan based on Bowen’s concept of differentiation
  5. Shih-Hua Chang